男人KTV

赚了一天不累的星期天,我也渴望每个星期都是这样。

很早就起床,其实...真的... 我应该把今天是最完美的一天。

可是现在的感觉真的开心不起。明天又是新的开始,为何近日的

天空还是一样黑?


前奏才刚刚响起
就有人哭红了眼睛
唱着他们的订情曲
对不起提了你的伤心过去
一堆男人下了班不回去
十几个人关在ktv
唱着青春随风远去的回忆
说这年头还有什么让我们动心
男人歌唱给谁来听
下一首有没有你心情
我和你吻别在无人的街
张学友唱出我的情结
男人歌唱给谁来听
下一首有没有你心情
你的背包让我走的好缓慢
陈弈迅那首歌是唱的他自己
男人歌
原来唱的都是不敢说的心情
一堆男人下了班不回去
十几个人关在ktv
唱着青春随风远去的回忆
说这年头还有什么让我们动心 哦~
男人歌唱给谁来听
下一首有没有你心情
我和你吻别在无人的街
张学友唱出我的情结
男人歌唱给谁来听
下一首有没有你心情
你的背包让我走的好缓慢
陈弈迅那首歌是唱的他自己
男人歌
原来唱的都是不敢说的心情

男人错


很多离婚收场后,很多人都责怪着那个先生(男方)。

可是没有一个人真正知道原因.

男人出轨就是男人错,女人呢?出轨又算得上是什么?

很多方面男人都是被责怪的那一方。可是女人呢?出轨
是他们的错? 我看世界上就是这样,同情女人多个过男人...

我是男人可能帮得也是男人那一边。

男士永远都是不公平的动物,也许这一点,我们常用温柔的一面。

一个女人让自己的老公戴绿色帽子,

那个男人用什么角度来看待?
相信每个人都会这样想?
1.静静的思考自己做错
2.离婚/分开一段时间
3.我们是否还能在一起
4.孩子如何?

我们的感情呢?很多个角度去想这一切!
绿色帽子的故事

1 唐朝一淫荡女子在家偷汉,不料丈夫突然回家.荡妇情急中将奸夫藏于床底.丈夫见淫妻神色有

异,心中生疑,环目四顾.淫妻心虚,假言田头秧苗缺水,要丈夫立 即下地浇灌,以支走亲夫.由于害

怕亲夫看见床底露出之奸夫衣角,便借口外面日头毒辣,将半个西瓜皮扣于亲夫头上充当遮阳草

帽,以蒙住亲夫眼睛。丈夫出门逢 人叹息曰:"今日倒霉,被老婆戴了绿帽子了."知情者无不掩口窃

笑.

2 古时候,有一对夫妻,妻子是一位主妇,生得娇艳可人、风韵犹存,平时在家里做点针线

活。因生得貌美,早就已招徕一些狂蜂浪蝶追求,丈夫是一个生意人,要经 常到外地去做生


意,两口子的日子过得也富裕,在丈夫外出的日子里,妻子就不免枕冷襟寒、寂寞难耐,终于有一天,妻子忍不住跟街市一个卖布的好上了,在丈夫 外出做生意的时候,他们就巫山云雨地在一起厮混。
有一次,丈夫回家后三个月都没有外出,直煎得那个卖布的天天在他们家附近打转,一天,丈夫骑着马到城外打猎去了,经过街市,那卖布的见了非常 高兴,以为他又要外出做生意,当晚就迫不及待地窜进了妻子的卧室,准备和相好幽会,当晚丈夫回来了,几乎将他逮了个正着,妻子也吓了个半死,那卖布的只好 哆嗦在人家的床底一整晚。这件事后,妻子就向那卖布的要了一块绿色的布料,做了一顶帽子给丈夫,还和那卖布的约定,当你看见我丈夫戴上绿帽子外出的时候, 你就可以来了。
过了几天,丈夫又要外出做生意了,妻子赶紧拿出那顶绿帽子对丈夫说:“外面的风沙大,戴上就不会弄脏了头发,这颜色让你看起来很俊,以后你每 次外出我都为你做一顶,就像我跟在你身边一样,你就不用牵挂我了”,丈夫听了很开心,以为自己真的很俊,于是高高兴兴戴上那顶绿帽子,骑着马得意洋洋穿过 街市,到外地做生意去了,当晚,他妻子就和那卖布的睡在他的床上。以后,那个卖布的凡见了那丈夫戴着绿帽子外出时,心里都不禁心花怒放:“哈!你的绿帽子 真是很俊,不过今晚该到我俊了”。

3 绿帽子的由来大约是从元朝开始的。当时的蒙古是没有娼妓的,化外之人,想要就要,大草原上的男女只要愿意,马上就会天当被子地当床。等到挥军南下进了中 原,就很是看不惯号称礼仪之邦的中原人开设的妓院了。于是元朝统治者规定妓女着紫衫,在妓院里做工的男人戴绿头巾,以示与正常人的区别。延续至今,就诞生 了中国男人最怕的一顶帽子:绿帽子。
中国男人怕这顶帽子怕到了发疯的地步,所谓中国男人最不可忍的两件大事就是杀父之仇、夺妻之恨。这种惧怕延伸到女人身上,就是生死是小,失节 是大,别以为只有中国的女人被贞节牌坊给束缚住了,事实上同时被束缚着的还有中国男人。妻子没了名节,就意味着丈夫有了绿帽子,于是一幕幕刀光剑影就围绕 着这顶绿帽子展开了。上至官庭,下至平民百姓,多少人为了这顶绿帽子大打出手,血流成河 。


无声,无心,无情的雨打在我身上。

让我有着无情的想法,什么都不作,什么都不想想,

只要好好的打完。

人不是机器人,没有感情,没有感觉看透不了未来。

人不错有人情,有开心但没有能力想机器人那么有能力完成一切

期待.........

人能做到只是制造机器人,机器人有的能力只有我们人给以的命令。

机器人只有黑白,人有可以看透是无限的色彩

迪克牛仔

也许很年轻人不认识他,
也许他的歌对你没有催眠感。

从前的我和别人一样,
留着一头长头发的男人歌是否好听到哪里?
他的催眠不是他个歌曲,而是唱出一个浪子的
心声。

歌曲:傻子的约定
歌手:迪克牛仔


我还怀念的夏天

星空下你依偎在我身边

微风轻拂的海面

汽笛响起才知你要起航

留不住心会憔悴

可更想看你远走高飞

十指相扣虚弱的誓言

你说你绝不一去不回

风渐渐大了渐渐大了

吹散了去年夏天傻子的约定

他还在告诉自己

坚持会不一样

流星会掠过擦亮他脸庞

我渐渐大了渐渐懂了

明白了自由自在面对伤害

世界总会慷慨

留下属于我的精彩

在每次擦干眼泪的地方
今晚终于尝试到半夜的夜晚,那个无名透彻的月亮。


没有完全圆,但有着3/4圆的月亮。



真是让坐在车子里的我心动,


有人说人死了就会成为天上的星星。



就会让懂得它的人去欣赏,


一刻星星代表着无数的智慧。


你的心情怎样也就会看到怎样的星星,


今日我带着一个不累的心,去欣赏平静的自己。


自己的缺点,自己的优点。


一个很大的公园有着一圈美丽的湖边。


景色正让人美艳动人。



平静的心坐在月亮,溪水,小径的徘徊。


闭上眼睛感觉四周围的情景。


用力的呼吸一口气。



离开一分钟繁忙的城市,去夺得气体。


突然想起想送给你的诗:


“月亮某某的出现在我身边,


有时候的你也隐隐约约的为我打气,



我的心不禁的像一只悄悄地升上水面,


悄悄夺走陆地上的空气,


有时候自己好比一棵树,


一棵没有方向的树,


东风把我吹向东我也随着它的方向而去。



石头的重量不比我肩膀上的包袱还重,



街道上的路灯在夜里不息灭一段一段的帮着我行驶
Tonight at midnight last night trying to, that unknown thorough moon.

Not completely round, but with 3 / 4 round moon.


Really sitting in the car, I heart,

Some people say dead become stars in the sky.


It will let people know how to appreciate,

The stars represent the moment the wisdom of many.

How do you feel will also see how stars

I'm not tired today, with a heart, to enjoy the calm yourself.

Their own shortcomings, their own advantages.

The park has a large circle of the beautiful lake.

Landscape along the glamorous people.


Peaceful mind sitting in the moon, streams, trails the lingering.

Close your eyes and feel the scene around it.

Forced breathing sigh of relief.


Bustling city one minute left to win the gas.

It suddenly occurred to want to give your poem:

"The moon so and so's by my side,

Sometimes you cheer for me too vague,


My heart can not help but like a quietly rose to the surface,

Quietly take the air on land,

Sometimes I like a tree

A tree without direction,

East wind blow me in the direction I have gone along with it.


Better than the weight of the stone burden on my shoulders is heavier,


Street lights off in the endless night helped me a section of road

Time does not keep people never came back first

The so-called: "Time does not keep people never came back first."
See more from the newspaper that a certain sentence.


If someone asked me what am I to say?


For the old me, I would like to return to the past.

We all know that time never came back head.

Many things, many people, in the long years, have been

Forgotten. Even in the encounter, it may not recognize it.

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He did not do well past the first,
First place in the future do not own is a simple.
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Do not want to change is any change. Thing of the past is past,
Society does not require any regrets. This missed the next learn to grasp.

时光不留人,一去不回头

所谓:“时光不留人,一去不回头”。

从某某的报纸看到以上这一句。

如果有人问我,我究竟要怎样回答?

对于以前的我,我很想回到从前。

我们都知道时光一去不回头.

许多事,许多人,在漫长的岁月里,都被

遗忘。即使在相遇,也未必认识了。

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过去的自己没有好好去做第一名,
未来自己要做第一名也不是件简单。
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不想再变现在任何改变。过去的事情就让它过去,
学会不需要任何遗憾。这次错过了,下次学会把握。

伤口

当伤口受伤是可能才会知道痛,

飙车的感觉爽很快,但一不小心

可能就。

还没有跌倒是什么感觉?

一旦跌倒后,爬起来可能已经受了伤。

有时候别人可能会觉得我是个人小,

但想法可能很古老。我就是那样,

什么都是要補后路给自己给将来。

如果可以人不会累时,我渴望自己是个

超人不会累得超人。可以飞在天上没有累得感觉。

如果在可以我希望有千手,一次可以做更多东西。

完成一切要忙得东西。
Lies,


Sometimes just used to lie to cover up something,

When the time to "paper is also more likely than fire"

Sometimes, lying is good.

Many out of work from home,

They will also say "call the parents do not worry,


All too well. "

Whether right or wrong to lie?

Sometimes a person will harm lies a lifetime.

Some also say that lie is cause and effect in the results.


Planted there by the end of the fruit also.

Last week, after listening to a story.

The story is about a Hong Kong girl and a boy in Taiwan.


They also re-met online in FXXX,

One day the man finally decided to go to Hong Kong for the girl,


And she wants to see a face. To Hong Kong, the boy is still the same

I called and he see a face. But the girl just said no empty


In just a few days to see a face with him.

One day later, two days later, finally getting the third day.


Girl about a man finally.


The girl said simply: "I was that the girl met online."


The man left without saying a word, from the boy my heart is broken.

Why is that boy so sad?

He replied. I like the sound of her gentle, considerate people to talk like her.

But why? Why is the girl made a beginning, such a beautiful photo,


To know the boy.
The girl is not beautiful, but my heart good
Other people who do not cheat

欺骗

谎言,



说谎有时候只是拿来掩饰某些东西,


时机一到 “纸也保不住火”


有时候,说谎也是好处。


很多出来做工的游子,


他们都会同样说一句“ 叫父母别担心,



一切过的很好。”


说谎是否对与错?


谎言有时候会把一个人害了一辈子。


也有人说,谎言也就是因果里的果。



种下的因也就有结束的果。


上星期听了一个小故事。


故事讲述一个香港的女孩和一个台湾的男孩。



他们同样在FXXX的再网上认识,


有一天男的终于下定决心的去香港找这个女孩,



想要和她见个面。到了香港后,这个男孩还是一样


打了个电话和他见个面。可是女孩只是说了没有空



多几天在才和他见个面。


一天过去了,两天过去了,终于等到第三天。



那个女孩终于和那个男人约了。



女孩只说了一句:“我就是那个在网上认识那个女孩。"



那个男人一句不说就走了,从此那个男孩就心碎了。


为何那个男孩这么伤心?


他回答到.我喜欢她那温柔的声音,喜欢她体贴的问好。


可是为何?为何那个女孩一开始就发一个这么漂亮的照片,



去认识那个男孩。

那个女孩不美可是心底善良

人不要欺骗别的人



Last accompany

Some people say that "anything can be money, money to totally unacceptable."


This is the best answer may be, people who accompanied the final?


Is the same "money."


People can lose their reason for it,

One can sacrifice for it.

Money obtained by the more,

Naturally you want is not a problem.

Without it the happiness we want is not easy to


Happy and not quite happy.

Some families for the money,


Brothers, what of it?


Money can step on, maybe some people owed money.

Only to die, gambling so expensive right?

TOTO, MAGNUM, 4D can be developed day,

Many people think that winning a million words made up for that.

People who have the luck to win every time, lose not a problem,


If people do not always have the luck is coming back down to paste.

No items for a day of fame, to get to hone is the biggest money.

最后的伴

有人说“有钱什么都可以,没钱就万万不能。”

可能这也是最好的答案,人最后的伴是谁?

还是一样“钱”。

人可以为了它失去理智,

人可以为了它牺牲。

有钱后得到的也就越多,

想要的自然就不是问题。

没有它我们想要的快乐就不容易,

开心也开心不起来。

一些家庭为了钱,

兄弟算得了什么?

钱可以踩人,也许有些人欠了钱。
只有去死,赌博让费钱好吗?

TOTO, MAGNUM, 4D 可以一日发达,

很多人以为赢了一次万字就以为发了达。

有运气的人每次都赢,输也不是问题,

如果不是每次有运气的人倒回来也是要贴。
没有是一日成名的物品,要得到磨练才是最大的金钱。

Copper inadvertently

Why is the sky always so dark night?


My heart is so tired, how to face tomorrow?



 
Looking at the sky, only wall


What makes the time go so slow?

Quietly listening to classical music,

Whether to allow their easy to sleep, sleep.

Particularly large number of wonderful things,


Want to cry but not the heart to tell his cry,


Not tears,

Men can easily burst into tears, for love, for others, as in the past, the memory


If I want to intoxicate themselves with wine, they can reduce the pain one hour to one hour.


If there are sleeping pills, and I want to eat one yourself quickly to sleep.


My heart started to hurt, and sometimes inadvertently pain, and sometimes the pain is very gaunt.


May be the heart and people, tired and have a rest day

无意间的痛

为何每晚的天空总是那么黑?

我的心好累,该如何面对明天?

 望着天上的只有墙壁,

什么东西让时间过得这么慢?

静静听着经典歌曲,

是否让自己容易入眠,入睡。

奇妙的事情特别多,

很想哭却心告诉自己不能哭,

不能流泪,

男人可以很容易就流泪,为情,为人,为过去,为记忆

如果有酒我想麻醉自己,自己能减少一小时的苦,就一小时。

如果有安眠药,我想吃一颗让自己快快入眠。

我的心脏开始痛了,有时候无意间的痛,有时候很憔悴的痛。

可能心脏和人一样,累了就有休息的一天

MCd

其实有个很糊涂的小孩,以为越了很好的朋友去过
那间MCD 的快餐店。很愚蠢的是那个小孩总觉得
那个好朋友总有一天会和这个小孩再次见面。
每当经过那里,小孩希望那个要好的朋友。
小孩不是每次都会经过那里,一旦路过小孩就会一瞬间
往进店里。那个人还会再次出现。

〈 TO BE HEBE〉

                    
没有管理员的公寓

一开始不知道什么理由去爱她的歌曲,
但我知道选择的歌曲。不错的专辑!

A SADness Story

(Perak ‧ Anshun 9 AP) in the fishing and ship collision in Hong Kong fishermen who lost their lives in the semi-Jizhong Chun, his family in the eyes of 100 points is a good father and good husband.
At 9:00, when the fishermen received notice that Jizhong Chun and the other two missing fishermen Di Ji Lin Liangzhong hair and the remains found along the waters after the incident, his wife and children crying girl sad, they really could not bear the most beloved people.
Jizhong Chun Pei Yun said the little daughter, he is a good father of 100 points, 100 points is a good husband.
"Dad has always been very frugal mother to the hospital in poor health treatment, has always been in his company. Mother lying in a hospital bed sick when the pain is my father holding my mother continue to comfort and accompany my mother to survive the pain."
Thrifty man porridge Peiganwangyu couples
She said that Dad normally rare to eat a good meal outside, he and his mother Lee Soo usually willing to look the fish with porridge. Last Sunday, she returned home from Kuala Lumpur to go along with his mother and Bak Kut The, but on weekdays he always said, "Bak Kut The very costly."
"After the Father's Day, I heard my father's cell phone is broken, so bought a camera phone can give him."
Daughters cell phone camera photo of couples
"My father has always complained that his mouth was too expensive to buy mobile phones, but he took his daughter to send a Father's Day and birthday gifts, and felt very happy, but also for his mother and I take pictures. The pictures are now only a remembrance of our ... ... "
Jizhong Chun's wife Lee Sau did not sleep the past few days, she has been with the side look forward to seeing his wife one; in the know to find the remains of his wife, the lift is easy to cry.
Pei Yun said the father by her mother, both of whom used to joke that if they later died, to be buried together, so the family to arrange for burial father, I believe in tomorrow (10) funeral.
Jizhong Chun did not travel abroadKuantan last year, Ji Di Facheng fishing friends know
Jizhong Chun Ji Peifen eldest daughter said, Dad had not his life to travel, just to Kuantan last year, fishing, and another died in the accident in the first fishing village in Selangor water fishermen Liu Ji Di-fat together, the two become good friends often drink tea together.
"My father, after six months of fishing in Kuantan, and sent us back a half century di Hong Kong, the beginning of the son, also my husband, Ji Zhiwei fishing line fishing, and after that he made because of Ji Di there is not enough manpower, so only in the past Wang Gan accident fishing vessels, but less than two weeks. "
"Daddy Di hair and discipline are a super good friends, they also were found with the victims, the fate of people get, people sigh ... ..."
Pui said they stopped working children to Jizhong Chun, month to some of the costs by the children, but also work Jizhong Chun said he did not want to retire and did not expect it died.
"We are prepared for him earlier in the lunar calendar to celebrate the first birthday Oct. 13, he was very happy and looking forward to all the children have returned to share; and behold, just one month short of the birthday party, and now can not be implemented. "
Sad Pui said that, while her husband is the owner of fishing, but due to my father's incident, that she was afraid of the fishing industry, so she asked her husband in the future would not fishing.Sin Chew Daily ‧ 2010.10.09

一则悲哀的故事

(霹靂‧安順9日訊)在漁船和輪船相撞事件中不幸罹難的半港漁民紀鐘春,在家人眼中是一個100分的好爸爸和好丈夫。
今早9時,當接到漁民通知,指紀鐘春和另2名失蹤漁民紀迪發和林良忠的遺體,一起在事發水域尋獲後,他的妻兒女傷心痛哭,他們實在捨不得這個最親愛的人。

紀鐘春的小女兒偑雲說,他是一個100分的好爸爸,也是一個100分的好丈夫。
“爸爸向來非常節儉,身體不好的媽媽到醫院治療,向來都是他在陪伴。媽媽生病痛苦躺在醫院病床上時,是爸爸抱著媽媽不斷安慰,陪伴媽媽捱過病痛。”
為人節儉夫婦吃粥配甘望魚
她說,爸爸平日難得到外吃一頓好餐食,他和媽媽李秀通常吃粥配甘望魚。上個星期日,她從吉隆坡回鄉,要他和媽媽一起去吃肉骨茶,而平日爸爸總是說“肉骨茶好貴”。
“在父親節過後,我聽說爸爸的手機壞了,於是買了一台可以拍照的手機給他。”
女兒送手機拍下夫婦合照
“爸爸嘴里一直埋怨說手機買得太貴了,但他拿著女兒送上的父親節及生日禮物,心裡非常高興,還要我為他和媽媽拍照。這些照片如今只能成為我們的追憶……”
紀鐘春的妻子李秀這幾天都沒有入眠,她一直希望能見一直陪伴在身邊老伴一眼;在知道找到老伴的遺體後,提起還是容易哭泣。
佩雲說,爸爸深受媽媽,他們兩人曾開玩笑說,如果以後他們逝世,要葬在一起,所以家人要安排爸爸土葬,相信會在明日(10日)出殯。
紀鐘春不曾出外旅行
去年關丹捕魚認識紀迪發成好友
紀鐘春的大女兒紀佩芬說,爸爸一生不曾出外旅行,只是去年到關丹捕魚,和另一名在這次意外中遇難的雪州水柳頭漁村的漁民紀迪發在一起,兩人成為好朋友,時常在一起喝茶。
“爸爸在關丹捕魚半年後,和紀迪發一起回到半港,開始時為女婿,也是我的丈夫紀治威的漁行捕魚,過後因紀迪發說他那兒不夠人手,所以才過去肇事的甘望魚船工作,但還不到半個月。”
“爸爸和紀迪發是一對超要好的朋友,他們同時遇難一起被發現,命運弄人,讓人唏噓……”
佩芬說,他們兒女要紀鐘春停下工作,由兒女每月給一些費用,但紀鐘春說自己還能工作,不想就此退休,沒想到這次卻不幸遇難。
“早前我們準備為他在農曆十月十三第一次慶祝生日,他很高興,也很期待,要所有兒女都回來分享;不料,這項生日會還差短短一個月,如今無法落實了。”
傷心的佩芬說,雖然她丈夫是漁行老闆,但因受爸爸的事件影響,令她對捕魚行業感到害怕,所以她會要求丈夫今後不要出海捕魚。
星洲日報‧2010.10.09

do not succeed

Life is able to return?
I was thinking, "do not succeed, said,"
Since almost the past, no one can start anew
No one gives you another choice, even
Looking back yesterday, back to the last minute, we can not
Change, like, what is the use?
"Walk in the choice of forks in the road every day,"
Large selection of like two big forks in the road came,
To the left or right?
Walking is easy,
Wrong,
Whether the total energy back?
Back to the origin chosen place, for further down the road.
Today, if he is a famous designer,
They want to, "In fact, my drawing is not bad"
Perhaps now is a good painter.
Today is a successful engineer who also want to
"But for the parents to force me, I have my interest in cooking
Good food, maybe he was a famous cook. "
People can always think so, but never just the present itself.
Like what is the use?
More difficult to walk the road of life? Each life is how the election
Important.
So many road before us, each stretch,
Who do not know their own future?
Sad!

成事不说

人生是否能够在重来?

我在想,“成事不说”,

既然已近过去,没有人能重新来过,

没有人给你再一次选择,即使

回想昨日,回到前一刻,都不能

改变,想,又有什么用?

“走在每天的分岔路的选择”,

大的选择好比走到两条大的分岔路,

向左还是向右?

走路容易,

走错了,

是否总能后退?

回到原点选择地方,换条路走下去。

今天如果自己是一个成名的设计师,

自己想“其实我的画图也不错”,

说不定现在已经是个出色的画家。

今天是个成功的工程师,自己也在想

“要不是父母逼我,我按照自己的兴趣烹饪

不错的菜肴,说不定自己是个有名的厨师。”

人永远可以这么想,但是永远只是现在的自己。

想又有什么用?

人生的路多难走?每个人生选着都是多么的

重要。

那么多条路,摆在眼前,各自伸向,

谁也不知道自己的将来?

可悲!

阴天

全天都是阴天,我的想法和阴天一样。

没有阳光的一天让人感觉不自在,

也许太阳躲在云的背后。

一段漫长的路,穿着绿色的外套,带着黑镜子的帽子。

行走在没有太阳,雨天的路上。

念头想是否遇到一个大洞,也就这样撞下去。

死掉,这只是随便想象的。

我以為

世界上很多人總是以為,自己能夠掌控一切,我曾經也這麼認為。現在,我終於明白常常因為自己以為,就去做的人終究會碰釘子的,會自討苦吃的。
從小,我就是個比較自我的人,對於想要的東西,我會費盡心思設法得到。想做的事,集大家的力量也勸服不了我。雖然,這樣的性格並沒有造就我一帆風順的人生道路,有些事情盡了最大的努力,還是落空的,但這些都沒影響我。我還是一樣,為了所有我想要的東西而努力追求。

5年前,當我第一眼遇見他時,我就知道自己接下來所要努力的方向了。做好了資料搜尋的工作之後,我才知道他在談著一場遠距離的戀愛。他跟他的女友是青梅竹馬,已經在一起很多年了,女友在1年前去了海外深造。
對於這樣的情況,我的心掙扎了一番。雖然大家都說我很自我,但對於社會的道德倫理,我還沒能完 全忽視。這段掙扎期還挺長的,我遲遲沒有採取行動。可是,這段期間,我們卻日趨熟絡,已經進展到單獨相約吃飯看戲的階段。我們一直都把對方當作好朋友,我 常常不經意地聊起他的女友,他也若無其事地跟我鬼扯。
後來,我們之間的友誼慢慢起了變化,誰也不再提起他的女朋友。我們嘴里甚麼也沒有明說,但一些 微妙的變化已經產生了。心裡,有點掙扎,卻也有點甜蜜的。朋友要我別自尋煩惱了,何苦讓自己踩入感情糾紛的深淵。我總是聳聳肩,甚麼也不多談。我總是說, 我沒有採取任何行動,我只是讓事情順其自然地發展而已。我以為,這樣做是沒錯的。
這樣的關係維持了近2年的時間。期間,如果他的女友回來,我們都很有默契地不見面。我不知道這樣算不算介入了人家的感情,是不是電影裡的第三者角色。
朋友總是很憂心地問我,為甚麼不攤開來明說呢,這樣的局面對我太不公平了。我還是笑笑不回應, 我當時以為,只要這樣的關係再維持久一些,我儲存了足夠籌碼,才會是談判的好時機。我以為,他告訴我說,他們之間的感情越來越淡,需要處理一下,就是對我 的無形承諾。我以為,不在他成功處理問題之前,勉強他給我一個答復,就是對他最大的包容和體貼。
那年農曆新年前夕,他突然告訴我他想要結婚了。我震驚地說不出話來,心中只是一直反問著:難道 你不需要解決跟我之間的問題嗎?我沒有把問題問出來,我只用不解的眼神望著他。他的笑,變得很牽強,眼神也開始四處飄移。我明白了,原來我一直以為的事情 都是錯的。我失魂落魄地離開了,我實在不知道該怎麼去質問他,我們之間甚麼都不是,我找不到質問他的理由和身份。
耳邊一直傳來他如何籌備婚禮、婚紗照拍得多漂亮的消息,我幾乎崩潰了。朋友要我勇敢地問一次, 我還是沒有作出努力。我不知道他是否因為我不問,就當作我沒爭取過;還是故意甚麼都不說,讓事情就這樣落幕,不必煩惱。總之,我無法諒解,我們曾經有過如 此的情誼,他卻棄我而不顧。懷著破碎的心,我最後離開了。

他跟我之間,有著許多共同的朋友。很多朋友在我離開的這2年來,總是不停地問我,以前那麼友好的我們,為甚麼卻不再聯絡了。他在這些年來,也給我發了不少的電郵,我一封也沒有回復。他的舉動對我而言,是一種虛假的動作。
今天,我回來了。我以為2年的時間已經沖淡了我們的過去,我可以適應回來這裡的生活,親耳聆聽朋友向我訴說他的生活。可惜,那天聽說他的小寶寶滿月了,我的心還是抽痛了一下。原來,我又犯錯了,我又以為錯誤了。

Love Youself

Everyone tried to persuade people to do life fighter, just that the daily per month per person per year to fight the fact that in many, many very tired, cry cry though, all have to hang a positive face mask, What is true, what is false, as there is no definite right and wrong.
But I am convinced that an important condition for fighters to do that, you need to have surrounded by love, love your family, love your friends, especially the support of your family, the most important. Sometimes, for the love, only love themselves, but the love of family, because family love you, we can support you love yourself, to survive. For the love of your people and students before they can be pretty exciting.

Life Ambassador, nor can physical disability to summarize all, many people good health, psychologically there is a problem, otherwise there will not be your most trusted person, such as teachers, such as elders, even to infringe you.


Impossible to satisfy all the beautiful, there are many physically handicapped people, there are stars is not admirable love, only love, can be ugly into beautiful. People have confidence in themselves, are more often between life and death in a turn, the this, the most important family and friends, if you make family members feel that burden, forsake you, insult you, it most likely is embark on their road of no return.
A lot of time, the formation of pessimism, in addition to depending on their character, we will also depend on other people think of you.
Since we know that pessimism can not change the present, it is better to face with optimism, and even fell down to sleep, wake up you will feel sad worm has been swallowed sleeping. Thus you will find that one thing happened, except for a reason, but also a revelation of the means, such as love, as long as you feel a sudden change in the attitude of the other side, follow not the same as before, means that the problem has been unconsciously derivative.
Life, the most important thing is to learn to appreciate themselves, who know more about than their own, to appreciate their own, one will know how to appreciate others, starting today, began to enjoy myself. God man, always has his scales, even if you deducted four ounces, will pay back you one hundred grams, as is good or bad, it depends on his record. So, do not worry, there will always be worthy of other people who appreciate the side, not too early to give up, you know, as long as there is love, surrounded by, you will pass wild, so to love, love yourself.

愛的包圍

人人都勸人做生命鬥士,只是,每人每年每月每日要鬥的事實在太多,多的令人喊累,喊儘管喊,一切還得要掛上積極的面具去面對,甚麼叫真,甚麼叫假,正如沒有肯定的錯與對。
但我深信,做鬥士的重要條件是,你需要有愛的包圍,愛你的親人,愛你的朋友,特別是家庭對你的支持,最為重要。有時候,為愛而生,不但是愛自己,而是愛家人,正因為家人給你的愛,才可以支撐你愛惜自己,生存下去。為愛你的人而生,才可以算是精彩美麗。
生命鬥士,也不可以身體傷殘去概括一切,不少人身體健康,在心理上是有問題的,否則,也不會有你最信任的人,如老師,如長輩,竟然會侵犯你。

美麗不可能滿足一切,有許多身體有缺陷的人,還不是有顆令人欣賞的愛心,唯有愛,才可將醜惡化成美麗。人,還得對自己有自信心,生死之間往往繫於一轉間,這方面,家人朋友最重要,如果令家人也覺得你是負累,離棄你,侮辱你,也就最易令人踏上自己的不歸路。
許多時間,悲觀的形成,除了取決於自己的性格外,也會取決於其他人對你的看法。
既然知道悲觀無法改變眼前,倒不如樂觀地去面對,甚至是倒頭大睡,醒來你會覺得,悲傷已被睡蟲吞噬。從而你會發現,一件事情的發生,除了有原因外,也有啟示的意味,如愛情,只要你感覺對方的態度忽然有變,跟從前的不一樣,意味問題已在不知不覺衍生。
人生,最重要的還是要學懂欣賞自己,誰會比自己更瞭解自己,懂得欣賞自己,自會懂得欣賞別人, 從今天起,開始欣賞自己。上天做人,永遠有祂的天秤,縱然扣回你四安士,又會補回你一百克,至於是好是壞,那就要靠祂的紀錄。所以,不要擔心,人總會有值 得其他人欣賞的一面,不要太早放棄,要知道,只要有愛的包圍,你便通行無忌,所以,要愛,愛自己。

星洲日報/副刊‧作者:林燕妮

Will choose the last song to listen to their favorite singer,


Time passed,

Now only choose the good songs.

One of my songs, too, only worth hearing a hundred of the old songs,

English, Chinese ....

Sing were not important, whether he is good looking, blind, too fat, short, high.


As long as he can make the listener into the song is a great song,

In recent years, I began to learn to listen to songs in Fujian.


In fact, do not know when it will feel sense of whether the singing of "foul language"

选择

过去只会选着自己喜欢歌手的歌曲听,

时间过去了,

现在只会选着好听的歌曲。

我的歌单,太该也只有百听不厌的老歌,

英文,华语....

唱得人不重要,不管他是好看,盲,肥瘦,矮,高。

只要他能让听的人融入歌曲就是一首好歌,

近几年来,我开始学会听福建歌曲。

其实不懂它的意识的时候会觉得作者是否唱“粗口”

陈真

今日看了“陈真”故事不错简述,很简单猜到剧情。
但最厉害的是演员的演技,也许花了很多时间重复在重复。
可是很容易就让人进到故事里,其实对日本人有点污辱。
但这一切都是事实,也许改篇了。
戏院的冷气很冷,每喝一口汽水都觉得很冷。
虽然穿了包鞋,很长裤但还觉得很冷。

下起很大雨,路上的汽车速度放慢因为路边塞满了水。
坐在车里,听着雨滴在车顶上,就像自己骑机车时候。
雨滴到身上的心口,红红的。
但雨很快就停了。

Today Movie "LEGEND OF THE FIST: THE RETURN OF CHEN ZHEN"


Synopsis: In 1920s Shanghai, hero Chen Zhen single-handedly avenges his mentor’s death by killing all the Japanese at a dojo in Hongkou, only to be showered with bullets while making his legendary flying kick. Now, years later, Chen Zhen, who is believed dead, returns in disguise to infiltrate a criminal empire and to dismantle the evil collusion that plagues the country. [Synopsis courtesy of TIFF]

“切! 有多爱? 才认识七天,还不就是爱他的钱”


寡妇何丽珠家财丰厚,但却有很多缺点。她酗酒、抽烟,外加尖酸刻薄,讲大话更 是她的擅长,身为公司的董事,却疏于工作,常常诈病不上班。何丽珠的出身并不算好,之所以家财万贯全赖幸运遇到一个英俊、博学又很有钱的完美男人。两人认 识七天便闪电式结婚,但丈夫却在婚后不久便去世。何丽珠继承了丈夫的大笔遗产,因此成了一个有钱的寡妇。别人都说何丽珠好命,但她却说自己与丈夫相处时间 短没有深情。
  这天,何丽珠开着丈夫生前的爱车,喝着酒,撞了车,灵魂掉了出来,她见到自己的身体在车里别人 在叫她,觉得自己死了,不愿回去,她突然见到一只鬼(刘青云饰)把她吓回身体去,她被送到医院急救,住院的时候,她听到一些声音,她拆开左眼纱布,发现三 只鬼在吵,原来两只鬼是勾魂使者,他们弄错要勾的人,被王劲威(刘青云饰)赶走,王劲威也发现何丽珠(郑秀文饰)看得到他,所以开始捉弄她,一天,晚上何 丽珠被王劲威吓得开车出来,开到大马路上,原来王劲威想何丽珠救那只被车撞伤的狗,送到医院,何丽珠因困睡着了王劲威怕她冻着,用报纸把她盖住,护士以为 她走了,把门锁上,害何丽珠上班迟到,何丽珠父想帮她赶走王劲威,帮王劲威娶了一只肥妹鬼,肥妹鬼不愿走,希望上何丽珠身,令男人们为她疯狂,但她过瘾后 不愿离去,王劲威去庙里把庙祝吓出来,庙祝把肥妹鬼赶出来,但王劲威也受伤,何丽珠去街上找了五只鬼来救他,还有何丽珠父请回来的法师下救回王劲威,后来 王劲威要投胎,何丽珠要留也留不住.......

分数:9.8/10



chinese back China

Though we often hear,

"States have a home, a home have a more happy family."

With the country people of a country to get good benefits


Not only on the state, all to a lot of people to build up.

Many people think that how good a country how good, perhaps only

Our people know the real thing.

Malaysia is a good many of our compatriots,


Malays, Chinese, Indians and so on.

But this is only the surface of Malaysia,


Our people have many different friends.

Live together, learn to respect and comity.

But the view of the above.

Before the Congress meeting. There was a video.

"Cina Balik Cina".

Perhaps the people in Malaysia know,

If you see later how to other countries?

Only affects our own reputation, the word to describe "self-destruction."


We are more than a dozen people can live in harmony, even a thousand years of our country.

But who is going to sow discord is harmony between our compatriots.

CINA BALIK CHINA

常常我们都听到,

“有国才有家,有家才有更幸福的家庭。”

有国一个国家的人民要获得良好的益处,

不只是靠国家,一切都是要很多人去建立起来。

很多人以为一个国家有多好有多好,也许只有

我们人民才知道真正的事情。

不错马来西亚是个很多同胞,

马来人,华人,印度人等等。

可是这只是马来西亚的表面,

我们人民有很多不同的朋友。

活在一起学会尊重,礼让。

可是针对以上。

之前,国会开会时。曾经有一段影片。

“Cina Balik Cina”。

也许马来西亚的人民都知道,

如果给别的国家看到后又怎样?

只会影响我们自己的声誉,两个字形容“自毁”。

我们人民可以和睦共处十多,甚至一万年我们的国家。

可是是谁来挑拨我们同胞之间的和睦共处。

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